Drs are the enemies

I get so tired of going to Drs. Today I went to see a Neurologist. He couldn’t read my xray that I brought of my neck. He diagnosed me with Meniere’s Disease. I completely disagree with that. I saw an ENT for 3-4 months he said it wasn’t Ménière’s disease and sent me back to my pcp. Pcp sent me to Neurologist to find cause of dizzy spells. They’re probably from my fibro but when the appt was made I hadn’t been diagnosed with fibro yet. I left the office ticked off. But I did get an MRI scheduled for my possible c2 fracture. I also called the Radiologists who read my original x ray and he looked at it again for me and saw what I am concerned about. He’s going to go to my MRI with me. I’m very happy about that.

Fibro pain isn’t so bad today. My anxiety has been insane lately. Can’t open my mail or hardly answer my phone. But too “afraid” to add another two medicines to my current meds. Rant over. :slight_smile:

HI Ashley, I understand, sometimes the medical appointments and run-around are very tiring, both physically and mentally. I had a doctor appointment yesterday and found myself a bit frustrated and upset with the doctor. Afterwards, I had labs to do and by the time I was done I was exhausted! But by the evening, I realized I had been a little short sighted during my appointment. I didn't necessarily LIKE what was said but that didn't mean it wasn't good information / advice. There have been times, though, that it is good to seek a second opinion. YOU are the expert on your body. I am glad you will have the MRI with a Radiologist you trust, that sounds promising. Have you tried deep breathing or visualization exercises or meditation for the anxiety? I know when I feel increased anxiety deep breathing helps quite a lot. It took some practice at first but now it does truly help me. I understand about not wanting to add more medications but sometimes that is what can help, sometimes just a short term trial of a medication can be enough to help lessen the anxiety. Please keep us updated on how you are doing. Hugs!

I agree, it’s almost insane what we go thru. I’ve become my own patient advocate, making sure I’m doing everything necessary and correct treatment course, No doctor seems to fully know a treatment course which seems to be different for everyone, so you just have to trust they are trying to manage you as effectively as they can but much goes Beyond their expertise. Deep breath, relax and do something rewarding for yourself on the days you have apts so you have that to look foward to after the visit. Like go out to dinner, get a massage, or just have comfort food wrapped up in a warm blanket in front of t.v! But, yes I would consider the anxiety med if greater than 50% of your week is negatively effected by anxiety. Then it’s quality of life you are missing. Good luck with the MRI!!!