I AM DESPERATE, PLEASE I NEED ADVICE to LOSE WEIGHT WITH FIBROMYALGIA.SOMETHING THAT YOU HAVE TRIED AND HAS WORKED, I AM LOSING MOBILITY BECAUSE OF THE WEIGHT GAIN.ANYBODY THAT CAN HELP! PLEASE REPLY

Just try to be sure that everything you do eat is as nutritious as possible. I am not saying that is easy, but with patience you can do it! It is not your weight you have to worry about. It is how nutritiously you eat. I know for me a nutritious diet (not diet is in to lose weight but diet as in what foods you eat) helps me feel a whole lot better. That is not to say I don't have cookies or ice cream or a steak with a loaded baked potatoe...but I do it as sparingly as I can.

You are beautiful and special just the way you are. Rely on God, do you best and please, don't beat yourself up! That just stresses you, and I know you know what stress can do to us!!

HHuuggss :)

That is so awesome!!! I tried that once, but I couldn't make it work for me. I am so glad you got positive results!

Hugggsss :)

I've had Fibro since 1991. Over the years, a constant truth is that once you stop moving or even slow down, you will gain weight. In the late 1990's, I started using Weight Watchers. The first time I went for about two years and lost 42 pounds. One of the great things about WW is that it teaches you how to eat. No food is forbidden, not even doughnuts, if that is what you want. It teaches you about portion size and what to do if you have a really bad meal, day or week. You can plan ahead for holidays or those times of year where you normally pack on the pounds. Also, you attend weekly meetings where questions are asked & answered and you build relationships with the people in your roup. It has the potential to be a wonderful experience if you you it correctly.

I tend to be an emotional eater and after a few years, I put those pounds back on, so I joined aain. After a year, I had lost 33 pounds and felt I know enough to be on my own again. I was not. I gained the weight back over the course of two years. In the meantime, I transferred my favorite recipes to "points-plus" and started the whole thing again. This third time, I was more successful. In a little over eighteen months, I lost 82 pounds. I met and fell in love with a woman in my group and damn, we were cute as hell. Having someone to be responsible to and for helped our situations. That is until last March 3 when I woke up unable to stand straight or walk. No movement = weight gain. Despite the fact that I know how to eat and what to eat, no movement = weight gain. I have steadily put the weigh back on - all 82 pound plus another 35.

At this point, I have more than 120 pounds to lose and I do not know if Weight Watchers is the answer. My doctor recommended Medifast so I will look into that as well into some other similar type of programs where food is delivered. Part of my problem is that since I cannot stand up straight, I can no longer prep meals or cook. I was a gourmet chef but for the last 16 months, I've been eating Healthy Choice or Lean Cuisine crap and it's killed my taste buds. I used to eat a honking big big salad every weekday for lunch that contained a combination of the following - lettuce, tomatoes, Avocados, anchovies, tuna packed in extra virgin olive olive, scallions, red onion, celery, low-fat cheese, fire-roasted peppers, Capers, gourmet olives, grapes, mango slices, Other proteins like leftover steak, Hard boiled Eggs, chicken, or fish, clams, crab meat (hey, I live near the Chesapeake Bay), (even) mussels, balsamic vinegar and first-cold-pressed-Extra-Virgin-Olive-Oil.

Think about it...it took you more than a few minutes to read all the ingredients. Now try prepping them when all you can do is stand a for two minutes. Siting is even worse and it promotes poor posture and leads to worse problems. i need to figure how to make this work for me again. Oh, yeah, on top of this salad, I would always accompany my BIG salad with a Weight Watcher Smoothie- not a huge deal, but, but another four minutes standing up/cleaning up.

I hope some of this looks good to you. I wholeheartedly recommend at least trying WW to see if the group idea has merit.

Marc

It exhausts me just looking at the ingredients for your wonderful salad!! But it sure sounds great! Sending BIG prayers your way--I know there will come a time you can go back to doing that for yourself. Meanwhile--have you tried grocery store salad bars? Not as much good stuff as you listed, but some are quite good. The ones in my town are low, so if you are shopping on one of those riding carts you can still reach the ingredients.

Love and gentle hugssss!

Kimberly :)

HI Thanks but at this point WW I can not afford it...........Going to really difficult times.

Thanks you so much!!!

God BLess my friend!

Alex

I can not even eat the salads, I do not tolerate food, I have problems because It gives nausea and vomiting....I eat very little basically ice, soda, some fruit smoothies, soup in little portions.

:)

Really $89? I am really going through very difficult times.....

WOW I will check on it do you have the link? or where can I get it?

Thank you so much

Blessings,

ALex

Did not work? why?

I know I do not how I am even alive, with just lots of ice,few juices, soda...some soups...:(

Kimberly,

My sister first made the salad bar suggestion and I thought it was fabulous. I mean, it makes sense - perfect sense. The problem, I think, was that after a year on frozen lean cuisine crap meals supplemented with high sodium snacks and ice cream (hey, I'm a guy, right?). Ok, seriously, those high sodium snacks and ice cream would be acceptable if I do Weight Watchers correctly. But I think after a year of those awful eating habits, my taste buds have changed and I am finding it difficult to get back to eating healthy, green, leafy vegetables. I have tried the salad bar thing five times now but it didn't work out so well. I wound up getting rid of most of those fabulous green, leafy veggies.

I will keep trying to eat healthier. But I am not enjoying the expensive salad bar options and simply am not able to prep the types of salads I used to enjoy so much (BTW, I forgot feta cheese).

Thanks so much for the suggestion. I am trying to eat healthier because I have to lose weight. In the meantime, I hope you are able to find a program that works for you. Allow me to pitch one last thing for Weight Watchers. The people in the meeting with you become a de facto family and they are all pulling for you to succeed. It is especially rewarding when you have obstacles like FM to overcome as well. I was very fortunate in that I have had two outstanding group leaders that have made my time there funny and so worthwhile even when I wasn't losing weight.

Best of luck to you, Kimberly. And may sweet pickled beets come dancing in your dreams.

The Deal-A-Meal...I don't know, I just had a hard time with it. It's been so long, it's hard to remember...

Huuggss :)

Lol, thanks, Mark! Good luck with WW, and with eating healthier.

Huuggss :)

That weight gain sounds spot on with mine. I am 5 feet tall and very small all over - or I was. This weight gain is something I've been battling with for years, ever since FM started. It certainly does not want to just fall right off, and it will take some work and determination. I have actually embraced my weight gain, because my ta tas are now huge and my hubby loves it, so my goal at this point is to just make sure I don't gain any more.

The biggest thing is diet. The second biggest thing is exercise. A huge problem with FM is that exercise is so vital for us to feel better - but it can tend to hurt so much. As for diet - avoid junk food high in fat and sugar, and avoid fast food. Even if you are already using portion control, the types of foods you're putting into your body can be causing weight gain. Since I have raised my activity levels this way, I can feel muscle forming, or strengthening - where there used to be just fat. I do not weight myself, because I find that it stresses me out, I start obsessing over numbers, and I cause myself more problems than necessary.

Also, I have just gone gluten free. I have done so because I feel that I may be gluten intolerant based on GI symptoms, but people say they tend to lose a bunch of weight when going gluten free. That may be something to consider.

As for exercise, like I said, it hurts. I did yoga for quite a while, and while it made me feel good about myself, it did not promote weight loss or prevent weight gain. What I would recommend is doing activities that you wouldn't normally consider "exercise" but that get you moving around. If you're feeling so bad that you don't want to move at all, do "crunches" while you're laying on the bed or couch. If you're feeling a little bit better than that, walk up and down your stairs a little bit more than normal, make yourself go back and forth more than normal. If you're having a really good day, walk around the block. These are just examples, but you should be able to find your own routine that works best for you. Even just using the examples that I gave, it will get you up and moving around.

Hi Alex,

So sorry you are struggling with this! Weight gain of any kind can really get us down in the mental department, especially when we are trying to deal with so much else.

Reading through the thread, you might be running into something I struggle with - which is eating too little. For most people, this would cause weight loss, or maintaining weight. Unfortunately, particularly when your body is stressed all the time (like fibro causes), some people's starvation level (where your body packs it on instead of burning it off) is higher than others. Through extensive research (years of tracking EXACTLY what I ate, caloric value, and weight) I have discovered that if I eat LESS than 1000 calories a day, I actually start gaining weight. This happened when I was pregnant with HG, when I was super-dieting (read: anoxeric), and when I get the stomach flu. Frustrating as hell, as the societal message is "Eat less, lose weight". You need to find your sweet spot for intake as I am guessing this is happening to you. For me it is 1400-1700 calories a day, which if you already eat very little, or really well can be hard to hit. There are a lot of sites out there where you can track calories and food journal effectively. I would suggest giving it a try for 2 weeks, religiously, to help get a feel for where you are, and then play with it. There will be a sweet spot, you just have to find it!

I was on Effexor and amitryptaline for years, which are notorious for weight gain, and it did take getting off of the Effexor to really make a difference, but once I found my caloric sweet spot, and started doing gentle yoga 3 times per week (more for stress relief than "exercise") I was able to take off, and keep off about 5-6 lbs per month - which was a 10 lb turnaround (from gaining 5lbs to losing).

Gentle hugs and happy thoughts!

Beth

Thanks for your advice.

But I still have no answer why I gain weight if I have had a stomach reduction surgery and I do not

even eat. I eat very little......

God BLess,

Alex

Hi Beth I wish I could do that but my stomach has been reduced and food does not fit in there.

If I eat then i feel really sick

Nausea, vomiting......So WHAT CAN I DO?

I eat LOTS OF ice, juices,and soda because it helps with the pain in my face?
Any Suggestions?

God BLess,

ALex

Have you tried drinking carrot juice? It is very very nutritous, and tastes great--be sure, tho, to get the refrigerated kind (usually in the produce or juice sections of your grocery store). The carrot juice in the not cold juice aisle tastes terrible!

Hugs, xo

HI GREAT! I will try it I love carrot juice.

God Bless my friend.

Alex

I hope it helps you, it is more like food than fruit juice. Enjoy and Gd Bless.

Kimberly :)

Hi Alex, I would try to stay away from soda of any kind. Whether it's sugar or sugar free. It's all full of sodium and the sweeteners are really bad for us. Even and maybe especially, the artificial sweeteners. They have actually been linked to weight gain now. (I try to use honey to sweeten things more naturally or stevia, which is spendy :0/ ).

I know that's just one more thing for you to be concerned about. I hope you start reaping some of the rewards of having your procedure. Doesn't seem fair. Lots of good advice here!

Blessings,

LKitty