I'm sure, the pain from the joint radiates onto the bone, making the entire bone sore, unless it is the systemic disease just going after you on a celluar level! It is wicked, and the sooner diagnosed, the sooner you can get on the medicine merry go round until you get to something that works, that is the goal and hope anyway!
I have been in some very bad places with this pain, Petunia. I am still adjusting to the diagnosis, but getting the real one was a relief, it hits you, yet just knowing is so paramount that you still feel like you can get something to make a difference, and yes, you still think there is a magic fix.
There really isn't a magic fix with surgery or with med. lamb said it when he said better, not best, and not to expect too much, that way you are not devsatated when it doesn't work, and elated when it works a little.
I have had some great days, but they are rare gifts, so you go for them when you get them, you get in the car and go or get the kids and go out with them, even put on your favorite song and dance, but with the arms and feet, not the core, so more shaking your ass moves!
I just found out on the last visit to the Rheumy, a month ago that the Psoriatic arthritis CAUSED the spinal stenosis of the tail bone. For once I did not break down in the office, but later, it hit me at home and I did. It makes you angry, breaks your heart, but again, there is a rejoicing that it does make sense, and you want to go rub this info in the nose of every stinking Doctor who dismissed your claims of pain.
Cheerful, thank you Pet, sometimes it is a sardonic cheerful though! I will never be one of those gracious people who thank god for their illness or injury, but I made up my mind a while ago, and still remind myself that THIS day may be the best day I will ever have the rest of my life, and I want to do something good, do some good. So I move myself out of the way and try to lift up others, because I do understand, because I have been there, gone through it, and still do.
Today is the last day of summer, I celebrated it yesterday, and the day before, taking my great grandson out to play for hours. I teach him what things are, he teaches me to be happy to be alive to share his life with him!