Finding a new doctor...Ugh!

I was diagnosed with Fibro almost 18 years ago. I went for years just accepting the moderate pain that I had to live with. Almost a year and a half ago, I got the shingles which set my Fibro on fire! It is 24/7 pain, on top of other things, I have nerve damage from the shingles, osteoarthritis, restless legs and I have not slept for more than 3-5 hours a night for over a year. I started seeing a gp and a rheumatologist. Since the gp could prescribe the drugs the rheumatologist did and he was a ways away, I dropped the rheumatologist and just stayed with the gp. I finally felt that he did not really believe in Fibro and all he was doing was throwing more drugs besides Gabapentin at me for restless legs. A neighbor referred me to actually a nurse practitioner. She immediately started evaluating everything I had going on, she believed in my pain and was aggressive in finding solutions. I never left her office with less that 3 hugs! Now I am on the Gabapentin, Cymbalta, Melatonin, Norco or Tylenal for pain when needed and we are trying different things for the sleep deprivation and restless legs. Through her, I also found out that the prescriptions the other doctor put me on for restless legs was 4 times stronger than I should have taken. No wonder I was so sick when I took it!

Now we have moved and I am starting over! Yesterday, I saw a new doctor who immediately gave me the impression of not believing in Fibro! I met my husbands gp whom he tried (heart patient but just needs a new gp to direct some of his meds) and the first answer I got from her was that she would not prescribe narcotics, go to a pain clinic. My Norco use is 20 to 30 a month, and used for the days I can not get out of bed and after days upon days of badly hurting, getting the break for the pain!

Anyone have some advice on finding a new doctor? I would love to keep seeing the nurse practitioner but we are now 125 miles away!

Ugh I am so sorry you have to change dr! I’m trying to find a doctor right now and they asked why I needed a dr and I said I think I have fibro and they said “we will tell the dr and see IF he WANTS to take you on as a patient” we shouldn’t be an option we should be a priority! I really hope you find a good doctor that gives you the care you need. Big hugs from me<3 good luck

Not being from your area, I don't think I can be of any help to you in finding a new doctor. I do know what it is like in having gone through finding a new one though. My best thoughts are to question people you know from your area on who they see or call doctors offices first and ask if they are accepting new patients. After that question, ask if anyone works well with fibromyalgia patients.

You can call local doctors and set up an appointment for an interview with the office manager or just speak with the nurse on the phone to see if they treat fibro tell them all the meds that you are on and make sure they can prescribe them.