Newbie here

Hi Iโ€™m a 28yo with a fiance andv 2toddlers -2yo girl and 4yo son. I was diagnosed about a year ago and family members are beginning to acknowledge the fibro :โ€™( Copingb has been really tough I have lost so many friends. I feel really lost and dont really know anyone with fibro. Reason why I joined :wink:

Hi Newbie! I am one too. I just joined about a week ago. You will love this website, as it's the best one I think, that is available to us. I notice you have 2 children? When I got my Fibromyalgia 30 years ago, my kids were the same age as yours. It can be a real challenge to have FIbro and take care of the family! I felt lost and alone as well, even though I am under treatment of doctors and nurses. You will find tremondous support here - emotionally and mentally. You are not alone and my heart goes out to you in all you struggle with, with the disease. I am happy that your family is starting to give you the support you need and acknowledging that what you are going through is REAl. I am so sorry about some of your friends. That can be very hard when you are ill. You will make many, many friends here. I already have and I have to say a lot of people on this sight have a great sense of humor as well. We all need a little laugh once in a while. There is nothing you can't talk about or vent about here on this website. Also, you will be amazed at the suggestions that members will bring up, to help you through your illness. You will find out about new Meds, physical therapy and all sorts of things that can help you. Take full advantage of what this site has to offer! I have told everyone here today, that this website has been a Godsend to me and I feel extremely blessed that I am a member in the midst of such wonderful people! Gentle hugs! Laurie

Thanks Laurie! It is def tough with 2 toddlers. They are full of energy and Iโ€™m not, which is frustrating. I just feel terrible that I canโ€™t give them more of me. Its winter so we are always inside. :frowning:

MsDoby - Don't ever feel terrible about feeling you don't give enough to your children. It's not your fault that you have Fibro. At their age - naturally they are full of energy. When the time comes, you will be able to explain to them what has been going on with you. Chronic fatique is one of the biggest drawbacks to having Fibromyalgia. On top of this, you also have the pain you need to deal with. It's a very challenging thing to have and I urge you to stay with this website and become familiar with everyone and what the website has to offer. You will get, as I said, such great support and will get great advice on how to handle whatever the illness throws your way. Does your husband support what you are going through? It's important to have family that understands what's going on and to have them contribute whatever they can when you have a bad day. You also have to be careful in not over-exerting yourself. However, I understand this is easier said then done. I will help you in any way I can, so don't hesitate to reach out for help, okay?? Gentle Hugs! Laurie