VALERIE, thanks for suggesting mayo Clinic in Florida. I'm very glad you had a good experience with them in another state.
JENNIFER, thanks for suggesting the website so much! I appreciate you sharing it. Have to learn more anatomy so i can better explain what is happening to my care team. It is especially helpful when dealing with my physical therapist.
Dee B hugs back, and thanks for the program suggestions. I will look into dragon speak. My smart phone has a hard time with my mixed accent, so I am not sure how well it would work for me, but tools are a great thing to have.
LUNA - thanks for the suggestion of using a teaching hospital. I will make some calls. My doctor is always clueless where to send me, I have to be the one to ask for a referral. My neuro issues are interfering greatly with daily life, and with a history with my spinal cord and back, the neuros here are stumped. Not going to give up on myself!
TINA, the library would be an excellent resource that didn't even cross my mind! Thank you for helping an old foggy gal. And Jennifer suggested a website for me to check out.
LOVETTE, thanks for suggesting using my insurance, but they are as clueless as my doctor, will usually email me a list of who is in network. UGH. The problem is I am "complicated", believed to have permanent spinal cord damage to an extent, plus 2 doctors feel someone dropped the ball along the way, and blamed my spine for everything. Neuromuscular disorders like Multiple Sclerosis have been mentioned. Having an autoimmune disease in addition to my fibro, myofascial pain disorder, and a lot more, most docs won't touch me with a ten foot pole. That's why I'm reaching out. hugs to you!
CARLA, thanks for suggesting the facebook group, but i don't have an account there. I'm glad though it is useful to you! Thanks so much for the anatomy helps. You went to alot of trouble to make that post! I'll call. I usually can understand most doctors, You pick up the lingo when you deal with tons of specialists when raising children with out of the ordinary health needs. That's when I learned to expect a doctor to treat me as an equal in making care team decisions by advocating for my children, finally doing it for myself. And our pharmacist, whose girls I'm sure we financed college for, made me an "honorary pharmacist" years ago. He found out I was compounding medications into syrups for one child, without any help. True story! My first rheumy asked if i had been to med school, because I use proper terminology. My mom had wanted to be a doctor, so I picked much up from her.
Thanks for all the help given, I'm grateful. I so need to get a handle on things, and get back to the business of having quality of life instead of muddling through an existence. There are grandbabies to enjoy now, and my husband and I, as an instant big family with lots of needs, never had time to be a couple sans children. We need it! hugs, Perplexed