Hey I’m new to this group… Just looking for some advice from people who understand. My husband is very supportive but it’s hard to even explain to him what I’m feeling bc it’s impossible to really understand. My overall pain has gotten a lot worse lately and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m afraid if I go to my doctor, he’s just going to tell me that I need to lose weight. I have become overweight mainly bc I have zero energy to do anything and I’m in so much pain all of the time, it’s hard to do anything active. I have dealt with the pain for years but it’s really affecting me emotionally now. I can’t handle the constant pain. What can anyone tell me about Lyrica? I’m only 29, newly married, wanting to start a family, but I need to get myself right before I do that. Any advice??? How do I find a doctor that specializes in fibro?
I am so sorry to hear all this congrats on getting married and your pic is Beautiful! All I can say is check online of any in your area. Maybe a rehomatoligist can point you in the right direction. Sorry , I wish I can be more help.
Hi Kadi,
You need to see your doctor. I know how you feel because I put off seeing my doctor b/c I thought she was gonna think I was crazy and/or that I needed to lose weight too, etc. But, when I went to her and laid out all my symptoms she did listen and I was started on some meds. (after tons of screening first). Anyhow....I am on Lyrica and Cymbalta. Honestly, for me, I don't think the Lyrica does much. Cymbalta has helped me tremendously. It cuts my pain in half which is great and it lifts my mood some too. Lyrica does often cause weight gain. But, a low dose may be ok for you. It doesn't hurt to give it a try and see. I would recommend the Cymbalta or Savella first (though they do cause sexual side effects which may not be good seeing that you are newly married). Wellbutrin helds with energy and it does not have the sexual side effects that the other two mentioned drugs have. Ask your doctor about these and see what he or she thinks and have an honest talk with your doc. Explain that you hope to start a family and see what options they can suggest (I know you can't be on some of these meds during pregnancy, but your Doc might have some alternatives for you). Don't be afraid to ask. Fibro is not about weight, so try to overcome that. the meds might help you to feel a little bit better so that you can do some gentle exercises which may help you feel good too. Good luck to you Kadi. There is hope. And, you are not alone. You will get better. The mind is a powerful thing. Keep telling yourself this and soon you will believe it. And, you will begin to feel better too. Congratulations on your new marriage. And, I agree with Janelle who posted on here earlier - your picture is beautiful.
Welcome Kadi. You've joined a great site with some great people who have been through it and know exactly how you feel. I'm new here too and I've learned so much already. Most definitely see a doctor and have a list of your symptoms. Everything even if you think it's not important.Your doctor may refer you to a rheumatologist in your area or in your insurance network. Look up his or her reviews on line. Ask friends or family if they have heard or used a rheumatologist.Good luck dear. Be well.
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