due to being tired i didnt read all the way throught all the blogs but on med i didnt see mentioned was an antidepressant nemed amipriptilne ( i know it nots slepped right but it should help u find it on the web.) its cheep i think its on the $4 list at walmart and target.
good luck i hope u have found something that will work.
i take 2mgs of xanax when i cant sleep it knocks me right out.