You actually have a doctor that tells you you're fat and LAZY! You should not only find a new doc, but he/she should be reported to the AMA! Shameful! I don't think I can help you with docs, since I have had numerous dimwits myself! However, please do try to find one that is at the very least, compassionate! As far as Melatonin, I agree, sometimes that has worked for me, other times not so much. I have found a liquid version that has no additives, like so many do, and it works like no other I have ever tried! (I didn't realize how harmful some ingredients are for "us" who have compromised immune systems). I found that only 1 mg of this liquid not only helps me sleep deeply, but I don't wake up feeling "drugged." I also recently added Ashwagandha along with the Melatonin, Vit B-6 and Vit D 5000 iu; and most important...MAGNESIUM (either Citrate, Glycinate, Taurate and Malate (the last is proven to help FMS)....all of which helps deep sleep and pain. Please try this combo! Not expensive, and NO SIDE EFFECTS...(except Citrate which can have bathroom drama...great for constipation...start w/low doses). Good luck dear! Lori