I HAPPEN TO THINK AND BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE WHO DON’T ALLOW THEMSELVES THE EMOTIONS TO CRY ARE WEAK.
I believe the opposite of what most people believe on this subject.
I am a very strong person and I know that. If my tears need to come and I let them, that means I have chosen to be BRAVE and take the risk of feeling what I carry with me, what I have shoved down deep inside for it not to be seen. Do I cry a lot ? NO. Do I cry? Yes .
Let’s be real. Believing you shouldnt cry, it means your not willing to be truthful and be brave about human emotions and it’s truths. (REALITY) some people rather stay in a made up bubble. I believe this is one of the reasons why most of society has lost their human side.
Lost their compassion. Resilient to other peoples tears or heartache.
I am surrounded by this way of thinking and quite frankly I have had enough of it.
I seem to be the only one who really gets this. I’m tired of feeling like I am a weak person if I dare show emotion or need to cry.
A lot has been taken away from me with this fibro but it will not take the best part that will be left. My heart and emotions…!!!
I hope this reaches the NOT SO BRAVE.
I love all my new friends on here brave or not. I don’t judge people’s decision not to show emotion. I just would like for people to get human again that’s all…If we saw this as a possibility , a new way who knows what could happen : )
Hi Lisa - GREAT post! I don't have much to say about what you have written, because I agree with you 100% I have always felt this way too. Love, Laurie
It is so nice to know there are still people ( my friends) : )
Who are in agreeance. Makes me happy to know this.
Thank you for letting me know big big hugs and lots of love your way.!
Love Lisa
You are absolutely right. If we don't cry, don't share, don't get our frustration and anger out it eats at us from the inside out. You are courageous for saying so. Bravo for you, Lisa!
Tears are a natural release! After my last car accident, the one I could never 'get over', I dealt with a great PhD Psychologist, and she always said not to ever fight tears, that this is just part of our processing.
I don't think that crying from pain and frustration is anything to be ashamed of or to be criticized for! I thank you for listening to me cry the past couple of days, I appreciate the friendship and support more than you know!
I hope you are having a good day! It's always good to hear from you, girlfriend!
