Ah, a conversation about bedding! It’s something we all obsess about since we spend so much time in bed!
Can I ask – did you try flipping the mattress over? I’ve read that some of those memory foam mattress are softer on one side and harder on the other. I avoided memory-foam beds because they sleep warmer and I have so many temperature control issues. I’m not sure there is a perfect product for us on the market!
Other than that, I can’t recommend a specific mattress since mine isn’t very soft. I purchased a feather bed-topper and it didn’t improve the situation much. I’m not sure it’s worth the money spent.
I have to say that one great bedding purchase I made was 100% Egyptian cotton hotel-quality sheets. The sheets are buttery soft and I love them.
On other bedding discussions, my bed a series of light cotton quilts, so I can layer according to my current temperature needs.
I got rid of my memory foam pillows due to heat and I have soft bamboo pillows called the Panda Pillow. I love them!
Given all my awesome bedding, it’s ironic that I can’t even get a date…