So this experience with "bossy" was a learning experience for you even though you had to go through "hell" to learn it. Just imagine another family interested in you for a part time job. With the tough lessons you learned from the last job you can move forward armed with new knowledge and lots of questions and on your terms.
And you have learned that we missed you and that we were so glad to hear from you again and we will be waiting to hear how the job interview went.
Love you
Rachel